Friday, March 21, 2008
Blog Stalking...
I have to start off by saying that I am a big fan of blog stalking. I love to read other people's blogs, and I have even started to make friends by learning about other people while "stalking" them. I have run into one little quirk about blog stalking that I would like to address. Anything I say on this blog is strictly my opinion. Nobody else has an influence on what I say and they are not to blame if I mention their name or put a picture of them up. If you read something you do not like I am very sorry, but this is my blog and I have a right to say what I want. In the same sense if I am reading something on your blog it is my own fault if I get offended or hurt because people write about what they are thinking, feeling, or just thoughts of random...it is not set out to be hurtful. Anyway, I am done with my soapbox. Hope everyone has a very nice weekend!
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First off let me start off by saying yes it is your blog and you can say what you want. I think you are a very cruel person. I'm sorry you are so jelouse of me and my life but you had your chance and you blew it.he is now MY HUSBAND and we love eachother and boo hoo poor mandy get over it. It's to bad you did not relize what you had till he was gone. And yes he is kind and gentel in every way, and an awsome lover and he's mine. so mandy maybe you should look inside your heart and you will know why you lost hank. you are a fake and cruel person. And frankly you really need to grow up.
First of all,we think Mandy is a great person. You have the nerve to tell Mandy to "grow up"! You of all people should know what one has to endure by living with a man who does not provide for his family financially. You have no right to tell Mandy that she did not realize what she had, because she finally did realize what she had and it wasn't good enough. Yes your husband is a great person, but financially he is not taking any responsibilty for his own two kids. Mandy can see that, and so can her family. She works hard at her job, is going to school to better herself, so you have no right to tell her she needs to grow up. Until "your husband" starts contributing to "his" kids, then you may say whatever you like. Until then...we all think Mandy is doing just fine without "your husband".
Brent
In my opinion, if you dont mind me publishing my opinion on your blog. I think its rediculous to be so in your face about stealing your husband and why would anyone be JEALOUS of all that.
Dear children, Please remember our heavenly father loves us all equally and wants us to love each other whether we like each other or not. Please be bigger then our worldly selves and lets all try to be celestial.
Love you all, Mom Surowiec
And to all you anonymous people to ashamed to say who you really are if you have something to say to me or hank who is a great provider for me my kids and his can leave a comment on my blog http://kristythehottie.blogspot.com i have nothing to hide. and to who ever said i stole mandy's X husband no i did not steel him he just found someone better. And for the people that think you are so holy and follow the lord you are the fakest of all you don't know me and my only judge is the lord. to mom surowiec i'm sorry that this is going on but as your daughter in law i will no longer take the abuse of anyone i love you and will talk to you soon.
It’s great that we all have a forum that lets us speak our mind but let us all think back to a short time ago when nobody was hurt and we were all faster to remember each others feelings. Back to a time when we all loved being around each other and I couldn't wait for Hank to bring me home left over Caesar salad and Texas Roadhouse rolls. Sigh, ok, now it is easy to remember how sad this really is. Hi Kristy, my name is Trish. I am Mandy's little sister. As someone who speaks to Mandy all the time, I can tell you she has never said anything derogative or malicious about you. This is just hard. Not because she's jealous and depressed about not being with Hank but because of how this is all happening. For every horrible story you have heard about Mandy there are 10 great stories you haven’t heard. Mandy is a good person with a concerned heart. Hank knows this first hand.
This whole thing is just a bad joke gone wrong. I understand how uncomfortable it must have made you feel. This isn’t about who does and doesn’t go to church either. We all come from very diverse families and personal beliefs. You can want something for someone without being judgmental. I for one gained a stronger testimony because of talks I had with your husband. Hank knows the church is true. He is one of the main reason I know it too.
Studies have shown that the number one most traumatic experience in a child’s life is their parents’ divorce. If this is not handled correctly it is going to negatively affect Sammy and Ethan for the rest of their lives in ways we can’t even imagine.
To Kristy, it’s good that you and Hank make each other happy.
To Hank’s family: Mandy loves you and would love to stay in your lives but doesn’t want it to cause your family drama. I know you guys can work something out. I’m not even your daughter-in-law and I can’t imagine not seeing you anymore.
From my family’s point of view: We love our sister. We know she is not perfect but the changes we have seen her make in just this one year have been amazing. This has clearly been the best thing for everyone. We need to focus on making it the best situation for the kids. I for one am going to force myself to remember the good times. There is nothing else I can do or it will drive me crazy. Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around, so Hank, anytime you have leftovers, I’ll wait up to share them with you. Xoxo to Everyone.
-Trish
Dear chicken sh%ts sorry anonymous,You all have NO idea what you are talking about and I dont understand why you would put your noise in were it does not belong. As for you Brent, you really have no clue about my life and what is going on and if you belive everything that mandy tells you then your dumber then I thought. We both know what Mandy is like and that there is always 2 sides to every story. I took great care of my family and your right, I am a good person.If there was any reason to explane my life to you or anyone else I would have, and if you ever talk to my wife that way again you and I will have problems. As for those who think that Kristy stole me away from Mandy let me remind you that we got devorced, Then I found a women who knows how to love and except me for who I am and have so much incommen with. She is a kind and loving person who has been through far more then any of you could ever imagine. As for Mandys family and what they think of me WHO GIVES A RATS ASS, they have enough problems of thir own to worry about then pointing out mine or any one elses. Mandy has created this problem do to the fact that she feel like she can make fun of people who has never done anything to her, she was cruel and hurt alot of people because she thinks Kristy had somthing to do with a bad mariage that ended in devorce. Kristy is an amazing women and did not diserve this. If anyone would like to continue this you are more then welcome to call me.
Wow, all this over a simple little picture. Does anyone care if I write this down and send it in to one of the day time soaps? I think that I can make big bucks off this one. :-) Everyone needs to just chill out. If we all take offense to every little negative thing that is said about us this world would be an awful place. Hank we love you, Mandy we love you, Kristy if you are as great as Hank says you are and I am sure you are then we will all grow to love you too. But for now let’s all just take a couple steps back and take a long deep breath and relax. Words can cut deeper than a knife and hurt worse than sliding down a razor blade and landing in a pool of lemon juice. I would go as far as say that most of the harsh words that have been said have been out of anger and don’t have a lot of merit behind them. If this keeps snowballing we will all end up bitter enemies and will never talk to each other again and that is frightening. I see how grandma has no contact with some of her sisters and I find that very sad. If we don’t want to end up like that then this needs to stop. It is time to leave the past in the past and work on making tomorrow a better day. Our relationships are to valuable to through away like this and we have two precious children to worry about and make sure that they survive these trying times. We don’t need to make it more difficult on them.
We love you guys but the bitterness needs to end,
William and Rachel
I want this to stop. I just got all of these messages today. The three of us have to raise children together and this is crazy. Yes, I hurt Kristy, without meaning to mind you. I have nothing against Kristy. There isn't anything I can do to change any of this, but we have to figure out a way because there isn't any other choice. All three of us are much happier, and now our job is to make two beautiful children the happiest we possibly can. I know all of us are strong enough to overcome this. There has obviously been a lot of built up frustration, but please don't talk anymore about this on my blog we can't fix it like this.
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